For many of us, it feels like our country is in crisis as it relates to social injustice. We want to be a part of the solution, but don’t know how we can help. Women’s voices should never be minimized or discounted in the battle to bring about positive change. Their guidance is too valuable to the moral fabric of our society.
In my life, women have always been that guiding light that I looked up to—my mother, friends, guidance counselors and now my wife. Historically, we see many examples of women who were fearless, who sacrificed and possessed unmovable faith. All of these characteristics are admirable and essential in a good woman. As a father of two amazing girls, I rejoice that they have many examples of Christian women from whom to glean these attributes. I believe that in the future they and the world will need upstanding Christian women who will use their voices to advocate change. We need to remind women of what they are capable of doing when they allow the Lord to have control of their lives. They can be a positive influence, not only to their family, but to all they meet, especially during this time of crisis.
In Judges 4:4 (NIV) we read, “Now Deborah, a prophet, the wife of Lappidoth, was leading Israel at that time.” Deborah was not only a prophet, but a leader and judge who helped the Israelites settle disputes and implement wise military strategies. In times of difficulty, it is often women who have had to bear the burden of navigating their people through uncertain times.
Many biblical women have not only been examples of good leaders, but have led the way to reconciliation and restoration. We read in 2 Kings 22:18–20 (NIV), “This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says concerning the words you heard: ‘Because your heart was responsive and you humbled yourself before the Lord … I also have heard you, declares the Lord. Therefore, I will gather you to your ancestors, and you will be buried in peace.’”
As women and men seek to make a difference in these critical times, here are two ways to be effective:
- Speak out concerning racial injustice whenever and wherever you see it. This puts pressure on those who are under your influence to question their own position on these issues. Choosing sides is not divisive; it’s defining.
- Hold those who are close to you accountable for their actions. What is your husband, friend, aunt, brother or child writing on social media? What is the nature of their jokes? We can’t afford to be silent and sit by because confrontation is uncomfortable. As with Barak in the story of Deborah, your presence can set others on a better path reminding them that we all are children of God.
In my life it has always been women who spoke with wisdom and love through the chaos and who facilitated during hard times. When others look at your life, will they see positive leadership and restoration skills in you?
